Q and A

1.why people search those that can’t be seen around. why do we always love to look for those unavailable? say when we are eating something, we tend to have an appetite for those food that are not around. or when we are with our friends, we look for people or someone who are/is not around?

basically we look for something that isn’t around and that is just but normal. how can we look for something that our naked eyes can cover? so will you look for a cake when it is laid in front of you? we tend to look for more because we are insatiable. we desire more, more than what is with us at the moment. and looking for something not seen within our radius has been innate to other people’s system.

2.why is it difficult to appreciate those people while we are with them? why we get to know the importance of loved ones or others when we are far from them?

well, we have this notion that we always have them come what may. it has been a part of our routines to see them. thus, we aren’t get thrilled by their presence. they are just there, that is it. we don’t feel the need to say words of appreciation to them simply because we find it to be “corny”.

when we are far from our loved ones or those not seemingly close to us, there we would find their significance in our lives. we then learn to “miss” them. we long for those times that we have built memories with them. distance never fails to make our hearts yearn for those times spent with them and we hope that sometime soon, we will be able to make it happen again.

3.why do people leave their comfort zone?

they leave the comfort zone because they have dreams to pursue that cannot be realized within the said zone. huge opportunities are often found outside the box. in addition, people wanted to face more challenging endeavors which will make them grow personally and career-wise .

comfort zone appears to be too suffocating that some cannot stand the idea to stay there for long. the world offers much and the only way to grab those would be that one will have to leave his comforts.

4.why people risk for some things that do not  actually guarantee fruitful results? who are those who are those who engage on such?

to risk is synonymous to gamble. when we gamble, we are in the arena of uncertainty. people risk because they yearn for the better or best of things compared to what they currently have.

risk takers are not only those who are brave, a few of those who take risks are actually yellow-bellied. some take risks consciously and there are those who take it for the heck of having something to heed on. but in most cases, those who are daring, bold and adventurous take risks because they want to savor life to its fullest. i guess those people who basically knew that life is so short to inhibit themselves from experiencing life. risk takers are the ever hopefuls of this world. once we hope for the positive turn out, we are even more brave to gamble.

5. why a lot of people fear death?

the thought of death dreads a lot of us. the end of life seems to be a fate that most of us do not aspire to go through. but it is an unavoidable that we all ought to face.

i guess death per se’ is not what makes us afraid but it is the thought of dying without having done what we needed to do. it is the unpredictable nature of death that haunts us. truly, no one knows when is the exact time one dies. there is no one who can tell about it among us.

death knows no person. if it is your time, no matter how young or old you are, regardless of your enthusiasm to life or your will to survive, no matter what you do or whether you are at the prime of your career or life in general, if it is your time… it is indeed your time! thus one can’t help but to be anxious of when is that time for him to take that final bow in the stage of life.

on a religious light, some fear death because they are uncertain as to where they will spend eternity. will it be in heaven or in hell? they are not sure as to whether they have led an upright life or not.. they are not sure whether the good deeds they have done will enable them to reach heaven.. or are their faith enough to secure themselves a place in the said paradise. for sure, none of us is ever certain.

or some got too attached to life that the thought of it’s end is just so freaky. some can’t just imagine leaving behind wonderful times, valuable people and many great things.

6. why some love to blog?

blogging gives people the venue to speak out their thoughts virtually. there are ideas better written than said. and there are times when one feels the need to vent out something and though he has hoped to have someone to listen to him but all he has is a computer in front to keep him company.

or there is this rush of intellectual, comedic, emotional juices that one should express immediately and blogging is said to be the most convenient way. or others are open to share about their whereabouts hoping that some people can learn from it too.

in my case, i blog because this is so vital in keeping my sanity intact. ^^